Give and Take

In my world of relationships, I hear many stories about people's generosity or someone's gratitude as a recipient. Sometimes there are surprising unforeseen consequences.

A friend knew of a successful North American company that had helped an Asian company rebuild after it had been devastated by World War II. What makes this even more admirable is that both companies built similar products and were in competition. The Asian company never forgot the goodwill gesture that helped them in the 1940’s. Sixty-five years later, when the North American company was having deep financial problems, the Asian company (now very successful) sent its senior executives to assist in rebuilding the North American company.   

Another friend shared that he grew up as the child of a single mom with few financial resources. The local Catholic School gave him a bursary throughout his schooling. He never forgot that generosity. Years later when the same school was having financial problems, he volunteered to help them raise millions of dollars that not only saved the school but allowed them to build new facilities.

“Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.”  Luke 6:38 

Often, the act of giving is transformative for the giver. Another friend was encouraged to serve food at an East Van soup kitchen to those on the street. The experience changed his life and his giving habits by exposing him to a reality he had been unaware of previously. Another friend, who owned a company in Langley, encouraged employees to give a day a month, at full pay, helping a non-profit. Many of the staff reported that their lives were changed by this experience. One employee subsequently joined the board of an inner-city charity and served for years.

There are many different ways to give. Someone I know in Vancouver was moved to respond one winter to an unusual cold front that was bringing freezing weather. He contacted all the local agencies that provide warm clothing to those in need and asked what items were required. He then approached a local store who sold him all the clothing at cost. One person’s giving often encourages another to respond likewise.

Many times, our thoughtful gifts helping others come back to us in ways we could not have expected. Frequently, both the person helping and the person receiving are changed, as they experience new levels of understanding and gratitude.

“You will be enriched in every way for all generosity, which produces thanksgiving to God through us.” 2 Corinthians 9:11-13 

We are all capable of giving and receiving. The scriptures encourage us to do both.

Blessings,  

Tom